kindness is so much sexier.

i would like to take the time this morning to let all the men of new york city in on a couple secrets...

Secret #1: Saying "Hey there mommy" is not something that really makes me wanna get with you. I am not you mother and even if I was your mother ... ew.

Secret #2: Making kissing noises at me as i walk by also does not turn me on. stop.

Secret #3 (this secret is universal and can be applied to anyone who tries to make comments at someone else walking down the street, not just the individuals of nyc): if the person you are yelling at ignores your sexual harassment and continues along their way, that then does not give you the right to change from sexual harassment to screaming degrading and threatening statements at them. i know it is probably hard for you to understand this, but it is not a compliment to get harassed while trying to go about your day and in the wrong instance those situations can actually be experienced as scary to the victim.

try just smiling and saying hello as i walk by. enjoy the view and know that kindness is so much sexier than harassment.